What you see is what you get! I gave up trying to please people, years ago-no matter what you say or do, there is always someone waiting in the wings to cut you down. So to the rest of the population-to quote Sean Connery "suck it long and suck it hard! Oh! and your mother is a whore Trebek, Ha!HA!HA!"
Everyday the Universe gives you an opportunity to redeem yourself-Love Yourself! Love your Family! Don't blame others for your mistakes, live with the choices you make, and for God's sake quit bitching, and stop whining!